People only show up in your drop downs if you search for them.
Clicking their profile on FB or messenger won't do it.
Me:
Yeah, he searched her out to see if she messaged.
There is this weird shortcut thing now.
So he said he clicked on her page.
Alice:
I’m too tired to make that face, but… I dunno.
He's on notice from me now.
Me:
But afterward, he has at least blocked her (and told her he couldn’t be friends with her anymore when she went to his house to grab her things).
Alice:
Well, let's hope that's the path he's following!
Me:
I know. I’m not happy about it, but I think he is just being dumb, not dishonest.
The running away tantrum is a bit much.
Number 4 in 24 hours.
Thank you for listening to me. I’m actively processing this.
Not the dumb girl shit.
The running away since we got back from meeting his parents.
But it’s also helpful to get your perspective on that other stuff so I don’t feel as gaslighted as I did before.
Alice:
Ask him to at least try different shoes each time he runs away so he can measure performance.
Me:
He might get paid for comparisons… a sponsorship.
‘The Nikes took me 2 miles and the Reeboks only took me 1.8. Both felt great on the ankles.’
Alice:
You're always welcome to reach out! As soon as I get to my messages, I reply.
Me:
You do, and I appreciate you!! Here for you as well, and I will be here whenever you need, same way x.